I started watching Onision in my anorexic days, you know when Ana and my thinspo were my only friends, and honestly he made eating so frickin easy when i was recovering. I still don't know how I would've fixed my toxic image of beauty if it hadn't been for the ed- and skinny/healthy/fat-videos He might not be helpful for everyone, but i thank him for keeping me alive, if that's worth anything for you
Do you feel like you can participate in a discussion? Like one where you actually listen to what the other person is saying? I feel like i can't find someone who disagree with me and who are not just waiting for me to finish talking so they can keep on rambling the same arguments over and over again.
Also, do you feel that you are open enough to actually change your mind if the other person turns out to be right? Would you even be able to see that? And then Im thinking bigger topics like feminism, immigration, gun control, abortion etc. Is it only I who find it interesting to hear why the other side think like they do?
Got to agree with andrewkyle here. But the thing is that it might help just to tell her that you want to help, you think she needs help, you cant help if she doesnt want help, but you will be there if she ever changes her mind