Post by camogirl2254 on Dec 28, 2017 13:09:03 GMT -8
My friend keeps getting mad at me for asking my boyfriend for permission for certain things. Like when i ask him to hang out with guy friends. He doesn't tell me to ask for permission. I do it because i respect him. If he doesn't want me to do something that makes him uncomfortable then i wont do it. But my friend keeps getting mad that i ask him permission. What do i do?
I understand where your friend is coming from, you shouldn’t have to ask who you can and cannot hang out with and he shouldn’t have to ask you the same.
But you should always ask for consent when it comes to getting intimate with each other, even hugging and kissing.
But your friend is not controlling, probably making sure you are not the one being controlled by your boyfriend or yourself being controlling towards him. I mean I guess it’s okay to ask him, but what if he said “no”? He doesn’t decide who you can and cannot talk to, just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to ask permission. You’re still free to do what you please as long as it is not unfaithful
You wanna go to heaven, but you're only human tonight