Post by hennypenny on Dec 22, 2017 21:29:58 GMT -8
Sorry in advance if this is too long, but I'm seriously helpless and desparately need everyone's honest opinion. Sooo I'm 5'9 and 163 pounds. Yes I know my BMI is in the normal range. However I hate my body with a passion!! My husband says if I dont get into shape soon he will leave me. He says the mere sight of my body (excess fat, stretch marks etc.) makes him want to puke!!! I have been trying to lose weight for a year now and it has not been easy I have medical conditions which make it difficult for me to do so.
This is me (not sure if you can see it I'm new here!:/)
Post by ImGonnaKate on Dec 24, 2017 4:55:09 GMT -8
No, you are not fat, and no offense, but your husband's a scumbag. I hope you seek some sort of help with your body image issues, and if your husband can't love you for who you are, then he's the one with issues. No one should ever be degraded like that, nevermind by a significant other. <3
If your husband is actually seriously threatening you with him leaving if you don't lose weight then he's the problem not you especially since there is nothing wrong with your body if your BMI is in the healthy range. If this is your husbands normal behaviour then you need to reconsider why you're still with him, someone who treats you like that is toxic.