Post by beckaranger on Jul 3, 2017 13:20:44 GMT -8
So I have a friend who's been with this guy named Charlie for a year or so. He's really emotionally unstable, but he's a good guy. Abbi graduated from school this year, is about to get kicked out of her house, and one of her old flames hit her up saying that she could live with him. Unfortunately, he lives in a different state, and she already has a HUGE crush on him. She wants to go, but breaking up with Charlie will absolutely crush him. She actually is in love with both of them and wants a poly relationship, although neither guy would be up for that. She needs advice on how to break up with Charlie without fear of him hurting himself, killing himself, etc. Note: She's 18 and Charlie is 16 (which is legal in the state we live in.) and the other guy is 19.
Post by redlikerosebuds on Jul 3, 2017 13:24:15 GMT -8
Well I personally believe that if your friend thinks that breaking up with a guy will cause him to do harm to himself or others, the best thing to do would be contact the appropriate authorities, or like, have someone be informed that he has threatened these things and just go from there. I hope I helped. c:
Post by spaceprince on Jul 10, 2017 16:18:20 GMT -8
If the poly thing is not feasible, than she should look out for her own best interest. Whether she loves him or not, Charlie is using manipulative and abusive tactics to get what he wants which could potentially keep her stuck in a s***ty situation.