Post by boogiewookie on Jun 20, 2017 8:34:14 GMT -8
So I've recently lost 16lbs and I'm still working on losing more. My husband told me my stomach is disgusting after having 3 babies and it doesn't even look like something that belongs on a human. It was already my biggest insecurity and I just want to look like a normal person . I was wondering how much weight I would need to lose to look "normal." I'm 5lbs overweight according to BMI but I was thinking somewhere between 15-30lbs less would be ideal. Opinions?
I'm not trying to be insensitive, but your husband is a goddamn jackass for saying that. You look absolutely fabulous for having 3 kids. I think you're beautiful as you are right now and if he isn't willing to accept your post-baby body maybe you need to have a serious talk because he needs to grow the hell up. Belittling your spouse and picking them apart is abusive behavior. If that continues and he refuses to accept reality, I'd look into marriage counseling because that sort of behavior is unacceptable, especially coming from someone who is supposed to love you for you.
first your husband needs to become your ex husband really fast! what he said to you is a form of abuse that could potentially become violent and his verbal abuse of you WILL BE TURNED ON YOUR CHILDREN! I have had experiences with this as a child and I remember my father telling my mom she needed to lose weight when she was dying of cancer! He ultimately turned his verbal abuse of my mother and I into verbal and physical abuse of me shortly after she died. SpookyCoo I understand trying to save and salvage a marriage but men such as her husband eventually turn violent. Either against their wives or children. He has already stated something very derogatory against her. As for your body shape my kids or not I would be grateful you sacrificed your physical form to procreate with me. That is something your husband has never understood. You would score a 9 in this Ex Navy Sailors eyes. BTW I am a 44 year old with 2 kids.