Ok so I'm best friend that chokes me, pushes me into the street, emotionally scares me, she also has tried to kill me more than once on purpose, and is just a really bad person to me and I really don't want to be friends with her anymore but their one problem she has depression she slits her wrists and once attempted to kill herself and I'm always there to help her with her problems so the reason I stay friends with is cause she just stoped cutting and I don't want her to go back to old habits so do I stay unhappy and continue to be friends or do I end it
Hi! First of all I just want to say that this is my personal opinion on the matter.
Now then, I belive that you should end this friendship with her because it's bad for you to stay friends with somebody that hurts you physically and emotionally. Yes it's nice that she stopped cutting but you need to think about yourself!
Post by sinterklaas on Mar 5, 2017 11:55:53 GMT -8
I get that you are scared to end this friendship because you think if you say you dont want to be friends anymore, she'll slit her wrists again. But that is NOT your fault if that were to happen. So if you do end this friendship, which you should because it's unhealthy for you, please don't feel guilty about her going back to her old ways. Sometimes you have to think about yourself first!
Okay first of all that's a VERY toxic relationship and you need to remove yourself from it immediately. She is manipulating you into stay friends. You do not need someone like that in your life. She will drain you. I had a online friend that was horrible to me but she was very depressed and I was always having to save her. And it was just draining me, and guess what. I left her ass and 3 years later she's saying the same shit to other people yet she's still alive. Point is, you need to put yourself first sometimes. This is that time