I'm 16 I'm a girl and I'm extremely confused. The first time I had a sexual fantasy about a girl was when I was 10 & I was totally in love with my best friend (girl) for 4 years. The only guy I've ever been attracted to is Leonardo Di Caprio but as ive been coming more to terms with liking girls that's kinda died away. I used to think I may have been pansexual cause I thought I could not be attracted to someone simply by their gender,but as time goes on I'm finding it really hard to picture myself with anyone but a girl. How do u really know your lesbian? And how do you know attractions genuine?
You have all the time you are alive to figure yourself out. If you fall for a girl, you fall for a girl and if you fall for a guy, you fall for a guy. You don't need to have a simple word for the type of relationship you want to be in. No matter what anyone tells you, you don't have to be put into a category of "lesbian" or "bi" or whatever. You do you!