Hi Greg, I am Mae and I'm 14 years old. So my dad calls my siblings and I "assholes" all the time and I feel like I'm the least favorite child. Btw I am the oldest of my siblings. So I'm the one that is suppose to be responsible, and stuff. So something happened last night that just really upset me. So I got a pizza and payed for it with my OWN money. So my brother (he is the youngest and probably the favorite) was complaining that he wanted a slice and I was really hungry and the pizza was small. So my dad came in and forced me to give him a slice of the pizza, I payed for and he said "stop being a selfish bitch, I never come home with food for myself and eat in front of you guys" btw that's not his exact words but it's basically what he said. Back to the story, he always comes home with food only for him or for him and my two other siblings and not me.Then he said "if you don't give him any more slices, your brother will have a phone and a pizza" and that just pushed me over to crying. So like my mom came home and baked the kids a pizza and I'm over here like wtf I had to give up some pives of the pizza I payed for, for no reason.
Just remember that clearly makes no sense. And if that kind of thing is a pattern that means your dad makes no sense. Dont let him convince you that you're worth less than anyone. This is the kind of thing iv dealt with and sometimes its hard to tell if you really are a brat. You're not. No matter what. Especially since you are young and you are maturing dont include his bullshit into the opinions you are forming about yourself and the world. I hope that makes sense and maybe im just projecting my problems onto you!